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Tammy Lenski

5 Counter-intuitive Conflict Resolution Habits Worth Developing

(6/23/17)Tammy Lenski

Conflict resolution skills alone will only get you so far.

Michael Leathes

Michael Leathes’ New Negotiation Book - Book Review

(6/16/17)Michael Leathes

Michael Leathes has written a book on negotiation that is aimed at corporate counsel.

Michael A. Zeytoonian

The Case for Early Mediation; Part I of II

(6/09/17)Michael A. Zeytoonian

Before we talk about mediation and the value of early mediation, let’s start with two key questions to ask yourself about your dispute.

Dan Simon

How Can the Presence of a Mediator INCREASE Party Self-determination?

(6/09/17)Dan Simon

When discussing different forms of conflict intervention, the various processes are sometimes listed in order of increasing party control.

John Sturrock

Sergeant Pepper, Nostalgia, and Missing Socks

(6/02/17)John Sturrock

Nostalgia is defined as “a sentimental longing or wistful affection for a period in the past.” Apparently, the word nostalgia has its origins in a Greek compound, consisting of nóstos, meaning “homecoming”, and álgos, meaning “pain” or “ache”.

Phyllis Pollack

A Bully in Real Life

(6/02/17)Phyllis Pollack

Life’s lessons come when you least expect them, and my mediation training comes in handy at such unexpected times.

Lorraine Segal

On Being Bullied—reflections, lessons, and gratitude 8 years later

(5/22/17)Lorraine Segal

When I was in the middle of horrific, workplace experiences, I did whatever I could to protect myself from the worst effects of bullying and mobbing.

Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

Toxic School Environments Make Teachers Sick

(5/22/17)Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

Is your workplace a toxic environment? If there is more than one person per week out sick in your department, chances are it is.

Jan Frankel Schau

The Role of Humility in Mediation

(5/12/17)Jan Frankel Schau

Sometimes I have to step back and admit to myself that as the mediator, I am merely the guide to a voluntary conversation about whether and how a particular case may be settled.

Susan Yates

Mediation Shouldn’t Be More of a Barrier Than a Boon

(5/12/17)Susan Yates

When it comes to defining mediation, I am not a strict constructionist.

Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

Marital Conflict is Not a Mental Health Disorder

(5/12/17)Jacqueline Burnett-Brown

When two people form a union, whether a legal union – such as marriage, or a domestic partnership, there will be conflict.

Tammy Lenski

How to be Truly Helpful When Someone is Upset

(5/08/17)Tammy Lenski

When someone is upset, one familiar response is to ignore it and forge ahead. Another is to try to make them feel better with kind reassurance.

Maria Simpson

DIS-agree and Commit

(4/28/17)Maria Simpson

Sounds contradictory, I admit, but it’s an interesting concept and raises an interesting question: Do we always have to agree before taking action?

F. Peter Phillips

Lawyers as Peacemakers and Changemakers

(4/21/17)F. Peter Phillips

Lincoln famously wrote: As a peacemaker the lawyer has a superior opportunity of being a good man.

Michael A. Zeytoonian

Resolving a Dispute is like Traveling…

(4/21/17)Michael A. Zeytoonian

Resolving a Dispute is Like Traveling, Writing a Business Plan, or Choosing a Course of Medical Treatment: If you take the wrong road, you won’t get the result you want.

Katherine Graham

10 Excuses Bosses Give Not To Bring in a Mediator

(4/14/17)Katherine Graham

Following up from our recent article on “10 excuses bosses give not to bring in a mediator”, here is an infographic illustrating the 10 top justifications senior managers give for not “bringing in the mediators” to resolve a conflict in their organisation. How many have you heard?

Patricia Porter

My Story & Why I Got Started - Audioblog

(4/07/17)Patricia Porter

In this inaugural show, Pattie Porter connects with the audience by sharing her story of growing up in a high conflict family, and this led eventually to her work as a conflict management expert.

Meredith Richardson

When in Conflict, Ask Yourself, "What are the unmet needs?"

(4/07/17)Meredith Richardson

When you are in conflict, what are your unmet needs? What are the unmet needs of the person with whom you are in conflict?

Nadja Alexander

Towards a Harmonised Approach to Mediation Legislation in Asia?

(3/17/17)Nadja Alexander

In the past few years Singapore has been busy revising, refining and extending its dispute resolution offerings in cross-border litigation, arbitration and mediation.

Phyllis Pollack

Too Much Information May Be Bad

(3/17/17)Phyllis Pollack

Often in negotiating, a party may make a monetary demand without providing any reasoning behind it.

F. Peter Phillips

Apple’s Terms and Conditions

(3/17/17)F. Peter Phillips

The invaluable publisher Drawn and Quarterly has ventured smack dab into current legal controversy.

John Lande

Touching Story of Relationship of Constructive Engagement in Conflict

(3/03/17)John Lande

I think that one of our main missions in the DR field is to promote constructive engagement in conflict

Bill Marsh

Too Much Or Too Little?

(3/03/17)Bill Marsh

How many of us share the experience I have had – sitting on the last train home, late at night, with a day’s mediating behind me and no settlement?

Carrie Schultz

Divorce Mediation In New Jersey

(3/03/17)Carrie Schultz

This article is about the divorce mediation process, including specific recommendations for New Jersey.

Lorraine Segal

The Seductiveness of Being Right

(2/24/17)Lorraine Segal

The desire to be right is deeply seductive and understandable, but it can cause a lot of problems at work

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