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David T. Totman
Law Office of David T. Totman

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291 Whitney Avenue, Suite 403
New Haven, CT 06511
(203) 865-6666
Fax: (203) 777-5774

Description of Practice

Help parties to achieve equitable settlement of their probate or family disputes without the time,expense and frustration of litigious courtroom battles

Professional Background

Private practice for 50 years with emphasis on family and probate matters


Formal and practical dispute resolution in and out of court.


BA and JD Yale University
MA University of Stockholm, Sweden


Dates    Trainer(s)    Title   
June, 1996    Florida Dispute Resolution Center    Court and Family Mediator 40 hours +
Nov. 2-3, 2006    Basic Collaborative Divorce Training    IACP and CCDM 12 hours
2015-present    American Institute of Mediation    ongoing online


Nonpartisan to seek equitable settlement of disputes.



Areas of Practice

  • Adult Family (100 facilitated)
  • Business
  • Civil (general) (50 facilitated)
  • Contracts
  • Divorce (all issues) (100 facilitated)
  • Divorce (parenting)
  • Estate Planning
  • International
  • Real Estate
  • Tax
  • Trust Management

Professional Services

  • Mediator
  • Mediating Lawyer
  • Facilitator

References available upon request.

This dispute resolution professional keeps liability insurance.